I’ve had so many questions lately that I figured I’d just dive right into the mailbag this week to answer some of them: Question: “Cory, what do you and other naturals think about when you see a woman you’re attracted to?”
Answer: I don’t think of anything. I’m truly “in the moment”. I just look into her eyes and say, “Yeah… could be fun”. She receives the message every time.
When I do this, there are NO negative thoughts going through my head. I am not thinking about the outcome at all. I’m just playing and having fun. Just like a kid.
I’m not needy about it. I’m not desperate about having her. I’m not unhappy about whether I am with her or not. I’m not addicted to her or the situation. I can walk away at any time. I’m not going to live or die if I talk to her. I am just in a playful state of mind.
This is the best state you can be in. Its playfulness and non-threatening vibe attracts women.
Question: “Cory, how do I tell a woman I’m different from all the other slimy losers out there?”
Answer: Don’t tell her. Show her!
The catch to this is that you must believe that you are different. You must know deep in your soul that you are THE MAN. There can be no question.
A lot of guys go out and try to pretend to be THE MAN, but it’s obvious that they’re pretending. Women can smell a fake a mile away. It has to be real. You need to believe it deep down in your gut.
When you do, you’ll never need to tell a woman you’re different. She’ll just know. When you believe it, she’ll believe it.
The tough part about believing in yourself is that it doesn’t come so easily if you’ve struggled with self-confidence your entire life. In that case, you’ve got to accept the fact that it may take some time for you to instill a strong belief in yourself. It rarely happens overnight.
Remember the movie Field of Dreams… “If you build it, they will come.” That same ideology applies to women. To get the women you want in your life, change it to “If you build THE MAN within yourself, women will come.”
I teach guys how to transform themselves into men that attract women wherever they go… without even saying a word. My website is http://www.coryskyy.com